{"id":625,"date":"2026-06-07T06:36:24","date_gmt":"2026-06-07T06:36:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/deanova.net\/?p=625"},"modified":"2026-06-07T06:36:24","modified_gmt":"2026-06-07T06:36:24","slug":"%f0%9f%92%8e%f0%9f%98%b1-my-family-called-me-the-ugly-daughter-and-married-me-off-to-an-older-man-five-years-later-they-went-pale-when-he-walked-into-the-room","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/deanova.net\/?p=625","title":{"rendered":"\ud83d\udc8e\ud83d\ude31 MY FAMILY CALLED ME THE &#8220;UGLY DAUGHTER&#8221; AND MARRIED ME OFF TO AN OLDER MAN&#8230; FIVE YEARS LATER, THEY WENT PALE WHEN HE WALKED INTO THE ROOM"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"isSelectedEnd\">I was born into a wealthy family where beauty wasn&#8217;t just admired\u2014it was expected.<\/p>\n<p class=\"isSelectedEnd\">Unfortunately, I wasn&#8217;t what they wanted.<\/p>\n<p class=\"isSelectedEnd\">My older sisters looked like they belonged on magazine covers.<\/p>\n<p class=\"isSelectedEnd\">Perfect 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